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Holding on: Bobbie said she doesn't want to get 'rid of' her pain, since it's her connection to her late husband
Bobbie wrote that at first, after Michael died, she often felt the need to make other people feel comfortable when they struggled to know what to do or say.
After several months, though, she realized she didn't have to push down her own pain.
'Grief is a riddle. It has a beginning but no end, and it can hit you out of nowhere and cause you to react in mystifying ways. Sometimes it feels like hunger, other times like exhaustion. It's impossible to contain or to explain,' she wrote.
She described how she now likes to smell Michael's old T-shirts, which has a calming effect on her as she faces 'the enormous weight of loss that I now carry with me everywhere.' But she is 'terrified' by the knowledge that one day, the shirts will no longer smell like him.
As horrible as it is, though, Bobbie said she doesn't want to get 'rid of' her pain, since it's her connection to her late husband.
'It's awful and uncomfortable and all-consuming, but it's also precious,' she said.
She wants her pain to have purpose, too, so she's making a point to pass on the wisdom she's gained and resources she's used to other people who are suffering. In particular, she cites he Wendt Center and The Grief Coach.
She described how she now likes to smell Michael's old T-shirts, which has a calming effect on her as she faces 'the enormous weight of loss that I now carry with me everywhere'
Last year, Bobbie shared several photos with her husband as she announced his death on Instagram
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